I listen to stories that folks have of infidelity be it their parent(s), grandparent(s), friend(s) or themselves and there is really some bullshit out of the bunch.
I witnessed some yet again, firsthand at a family get together this weekend.
Now the first reaction for folks with a cheating mate is usually some violent act, but you know your ish must be platinum plated, diamond encrusted or something for you to be a cheater and everyone involved works around it.
Case in point: My cousin threw a 60th birthday party for her mama this weekend. I went simply because I saw her the morning of and I'd told her that I would try and make it though I've been under the weather.
I get there and am talking to her daughter about some of the unfamiliar folks and I ask who did the catering. She rattled off several famililar names and one I didn't recognize. I asked who that person was.
Sitting down? Ok, the birthday "girl" Ann (not using real names here) is married to Charles. Charles' girlfriend's name is Barbara (even though Ann and Charles are still living together) and Barbara did the greens and candied yams. *In my best Niecy Nash voice* What kinda foolishness is this?
I guess if you got it like that, but as a woman, I can tell you ain't none of that happenin up in my camp! I'll be alone the remainder of my years before I settle for some shit like that!
*SMH* My family...
WoW.
ReplyDeleteSo the girlfriend is catering a family party ?WTF ? Is it his family or the wifes ? You know what... I dont even care. That is some craziness. LOL
But I say this alot, many women will put up with boatloads of foolishness.
I've heard some stories...but lawd...*smdh*
ReplyDeleteThats a hot stankin' mess!
ReplyDeletelawd aint dis sum mess but if they like it i luv it lol
ReplyDeleteSo does the wife know that the *husband stealing greens making heffa* is her husbands girlfriend? And if she does... WOW... families are so liberated....lol
ReplyDeleteMy aunt lived with her guy (boyfriend, live-in mate) for nearly 18 years, up until 2 years ago... My uncle (the 2 were divorced) used to be a constant face in my aunts house, with the live-in guy... which none seemed to care about... My uncle (father of cousins) finally stole my aunt back from the live-in and now their happily ever after... Damn mess if you ask me... lol
ReplyDeletemy bay-mate was telling me that when her brother died a couple of months ago, his side piece showed up for the funeral and Debbie ran her out.
ReplyDeleteWell, maybe it's a very open relationship.
ReplyDeleteAin't dat a bish?
ReplyDeleteQué hace el 3 significan?
ReplyDeleteSee that's that Fragganaggle BS I won't tolerate!!! But some people can tolerate it. I would NOT!!!
ReplyDeleteGirl that's some bullshit there. Even if I knew my man was fuckin around, he couldn't come to the party, and his girlfriend could keep her stank ass greens to herself. "I gotcho yams right here bitch" !! ****lookin over my shoulder with a smirk on my face****
ReplyDeleteKeep your friends close and your enemies even closer... Thats what sister girl is doing... lol
ReplyDeleteShe would be wearing those greens TRUST!!!!
ReplyDeleteYES!!
ReplyDeletebien entonces eso justo loco
ReplyDeleteI guess...miss me with the BS
ReplyDeleteTodos deben estar más dispuestos a aceptar sus amigas de maridos.
ReplyDeleteLo que!
ReplyDeleteesto es mi idioma de la elección
ReplyDeleteMaybe that's how those greens landed on my truck...
ReplyDeleteFamily argument between the wife and the mistress?
When my X's father had a stroke...at his GIRLFRIEND'S house...she called his wife to tell him. She also tried to be by his bedside but she was summarily DISMISSED.
ReplyDeleteNow THAT is a woman with some really Big Balls!!!
ReplyDeleteDammit Twin!!! We won't talk about my uncle pissing his girlfriend off and then having the nuts to go to sleep at her house. She promptly stabbed him in the chest, killing him and the police had to go to his real place of residence to tell his wife...
ReplyDeleteWayyy back in the day... I had a then-husband who stood me and some friends up with plans to watch a Mike Tyson fight. He claimed he was going out to pick up snacks... Turns out the snacks he was pickin up were for the "fight party" he was havin at his 'girlfriend's' house. They were doin a double date thing with another couple. I had just delivered our 2nd child 2 weeks prior and was pissed.
ReplyDeleteNow...Here's the BEST part of it all...He had some speeding tickets that had turned into warrants and he got stopped by the cops coming from the grocery store. Had his triflin ass girlfriend come knock on my door at 11:30pm to tell me that "He was with them, and was sending a message via the girl to have me contact his grandmother for bail money" I did so and she told me she would come in the morning with the money.
Here's the kicker....As she sat across from me at our small kitchen, she placed an envelope with $400 in it just under her palm and stared me in the eye - "I love my grandson sweetie, but I know he's not takin' care of business in this household, so I give you may bail out your husband, or you can handle what he should have with it" I was young, but not a complete idiot. It was Friday afternoon........ So Monday morning, after they released him from his weekend stay (LOL) He asked me if I'd made the call. I told him "Sure I did, and I was given an option"...He was blown away that I'd let him sit in jail. I was like whatever...
But cheerfully sat at that same kitchen table while I allowed him to make breakfast for me while I listened attentively to his stories of naked delousing, having his shoes stolen by a homeless man in his sleep and dodging anal rape...I laughed my ass of.
Niggas are stupid!!!!
ReplyDeleteDang...ok, you beat me. LOL. I give up.
ReplyDeletePeople are CRAZY and do some messed up things when thinking with the wrong part of their anatomy.
Good for you. He needed that experience. Hope it taught him a lesson.
ReplyDeleteThis probably happens more than we realize. Same thing as a woman who knows in her heart her husband is cheating...even has clues, but never confronts him.
ReplyDeleteBut this story is a lot crazier..for sure!
first..love unfortunately it did not teach him any lessons that lasted...l eventually had to give him an ultimatum later on down the road with the following girlfriend. He called my bluff, and found the door locked and everything he owned in black garbage bags lined along the front side of the apartment wall when he decied to come home after I'd turned in for the night. Not long after that I filed for divorce. That was literally 21 years ago. To this day, he has been re-married for 15+ years and his habits didn't change much, just slowed down with kids and age. I don't think once a cheat always a cheat, but he makes it really hard to doubt.
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