Monday, February 25, 2008

Jill Scott talks about bra problems

By NEKESA MUMBI MOODY, AP Music Writer 2 hours, 40 minutes ago

NEW YORK - Although Jill Scott loves her curves, her ample bustline has caused her plenty of pain.

"I have large breasts," Scott told The Associated Press in a recent interview. "I've been blessed with them, and I need something that can support (them)."

She's had bras custom-made, and has even worn two at a time — "a bra for lift, and one for shape," the 35-year-old Grammy-winning singer/actress said. But still no relief.

Now Scott believes she's found a solution for herself — and millions of other voluptuous women — with her "Butterfly" bra for plus-size store Ashley Stewart.

The bra, which Ashley Stewart says is "inspired" by Scott, puts additional fabric and support on the back of the garment rather than on the shoulder straps, which can cut into the skin.

"I got tired of the hurting shoulders — that's not nice," said Scott, who starred in last fall's hit film "Why Did I Get Married?" She is touring to promote her latest album, "The Real Thing: Words and Sounds, Vol. 3."

There was a time, Scott said, when she considered breast reduction but decided against it, fearing the surgery would be painful.

"Besides, I really enjoy my breasts," she said. "They've been with me for a long time — without being too graphic, we've had fun!"

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On the Net:

Jill Scott:

http://www.jillscott.com

Ashley Stewart:

http://www.ashleystewart.com

Friday, February 22, 2008

Advice Please

I'm considering satellite radio.  Who has it and why is your brand the best choice?  What is the cost/maintenance?

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Stevie Wonder

I am trying my best to push my work aside today, lol.

Post your favorite Stevie Wonder songs here.

I'd have to say this is one my all time favorite Stevie songs.

I Wish

Monday, February 18, 2008

Do You Know What A Cake Walk Is?

First of all, let me start by saying I've posted so much stuff today, I feel like my name should be Redeyewire...

Now...my son had a winter festival at school a couple of weeks ago and I mentioned to a friend that the cupcakes my son won at the cakewalk also yielded me a pretty good cake pan.  I didn't understand why someone would send items to the school in a real pan with no identification attached to it.

My friend asked, what the hell is a cake walk?

*enter Scooby "errruh?" here*

What is a cake walk? Are you serious?

So I explained it to him.  A few days later I was telling another friend about that conversation and she didn't know what I was talking about either. So now I'm wondering if cake walks are just unique to my area, I'm extra nerdy for going to the fall/winter festivals at school since grade school or just what is going on.

Do you know what a cake walk is?

Worry

Is there a magic cutoff period when
Offspring become accountable for their own
Actions? Is there a wonderful moment when
Parents can become detached spectators in
The lives of their children and shrug, "It's
Their life," and feel nothing?


When I was in my twenties, I stood in a hospital
Corridor waiting for doctors to put a few
Stitches in my daughter's head. I asked, "When do
You stop worrying?" The nurse said,
"When they get out of the accident stage." My
Dad just smiled faintly and said nothing.


When I was in my thirties, I sat on a little
Chair in a classroom and heard how one of my
Children talked incessantly, disrupted the class,
And was headed for a career making
License plates. As if to read my mind, a teacher
Said, "Don't worry, they all go through
This stage and then you can sit back, relax and
Enjoy them." My dad just smiled
Faintly and said nothing.


When I was in my forties, I spent a lifetime
Waiting for the phone to ring, the cars to come
Home, the front door to open. A friend said,
"They're trying to find themselves. Don't worry,
In a few years, you can stop worrying. They'll be
Adults." My dad just smiled faintly
And said nothing.


By the time I was 50, I was sick & tired of being
Vulnerable. I was still worrying over my
Children, but there was a new wrinkle. There
Was nothing I could do about it. My
Dad just smiled faintly and said nothing. I
Continued to anguish over their failures, be
Tormented by their frustrations and absorbed in
Their disappointments.


My friends said that when my kids got married I
Could stop worrying and lead my own
Life. I wanted to believe that, but I was
Haunted by my dad's warm smile and his
Occasional, "You look pale. Are you all right?
Call me the minute you get home. Are
You depressed about something?"


Can it be that parents are sentenced to a
Lifetime of worry? Is concern for one another
Handed down like a torch to blaze the trail of
Human frailties and the fears of the
Unknown? Is concern a curse or is it a virtue
That elevates us to the highest form of life?


One of my children became quite irritable
Recently, saying to me, "Where were you? I've been
Calling for 3 days, and no one answered I was worried."

I smiled a warm smile.
The torch has been passed.

 

 


PASS IT ON TO OTHER WONDERFUL PARENTS
(And also to your children. That's the fun part)

Three Ladies In A Sauna

THREE WOMEN, TWO YOUNGER AND ONE SENIOR CITIZEN, WERE SITTING NAKED IN A SAUNA. SUDDENLY THERE WAS A BEEPING SOUND. THE YOUNG WOMAN PRESSED HER FOREARM AND THE BEEP STOPPED. THE OTHERS LOOKED AT HER QUESTIONINGLY. 'THAT WAS MY PAGER,' SHE SAID. I HAVE A MICROCHIP UNDER THE SKIN OF MY ARM.

A FEW MINUTES LATER, A PHONE RANG. THE SECOND YOUNG WOMAN LIFTED HER PALM TO HER EAR. WHEN SHE FINISHED, SHE EXPLAINED, 'THAT WAS MY MOBILE PHONE. I HAVE A MICROCHIP IN MY HAND.

THE OLDER WOMAN FELT VERY LOW -TECH.
 NOT TO BE OUT DONE, SHE DECIDED SHE HAD TO DO SOMETHI NG JUST AS IMPRESSIVE.  SHE STEPPED OUT OF THE SAUNA AND WENT TO THE BATHROOM.  SHE RETURNED WITH A PIECE OF TOILET PAPER HANGING FROM HER REAR END.

THE OTHERS RAISED THEIR EYEBROWS AND STARED AT HER.
THE OLDER WOMAN FINALLY SAID.........WELL, WILL YOU LOOK AT THAT....I'M GETTING A FAX!!

The Barber

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.

As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation. They talked about so many things and various subjects.

When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said:

'I don't believe that God exists..'

'Why do you say that?' asked the customer.

'Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn't exist. Tell me, if God exists, would there be so many sick people?

Would there be abandoned children?

If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain.

I can't imagine loving a God who would allow all of these things.'

The customer th ought for a moment, but didn't respond because he didn't want to start an argument.

The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop.

Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and un-kept.

The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber:

'You know what? Barbers do not exist.'

'How can you say that?' asked the surprised barber 'I am here, and I am a barber. And I just worked on you!'

'No!! ' the customer exclaimed. 'Barbers don't exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.'

'Ah, but barbers DO exist! What happens is, people do not come to me.'

'Exactly!'- affirmed the customer. 'That's the point! God, too, DOES exist! What happens, is, people don't go to Him and do not look for Him. That's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world.'


Do not ask the Lord to guide your footsteps if you're not willing to move your feet 
 

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Don't Believe In Miracles? (A 360 repost)

After reading Caramelkisses' testimony, I told her I'd post one of my many...Here goes...

I was thumbing through an old photo album not too long ago and I came across some pictures that reminded me that if I should thank the Lord every day for no other reason, it should be for allowing me to walk away from this van...yes an ASTRO VAN! I remember a few years ago someone in my Sunday School class said that Jesus didn't perform miracles in modern days, only in the days of the bible. Let me tell you what I told him.......

It was a cold November Sunday morning in 1995, and I'd decided to ride with my mother to her newly appointed church in Godfrey, IL. We were having dinner after church so we had a crock pot, some pyrex dishes and a few canned items in the back.

I'd decided we had gotten up waaaay too early, so I looked at my son in the back seat and he looked uncomfortable, so I took him out of his seat belt and let him lay on the seat. I don't know why he wasn't in a car seat, maybe they weren't enforcing the law much then. Anyway, I remember seeing snow starting to blow across the highway (we were traveling I-55 South) and we were coming up on Litchfield, which meant I had enough time to catch a cat nap. The last thing I saw before I reclined my seat was another Springfield pastor whose church was in nearby Alton, go flying past. I remember thinking that his tires couldn't even be really touching the ground.

I lay my seat back and closed my eyes and almost immediately I heard my mom say “Oh Lord!” The next thing I remember was thinking “We’re rolling. When will it stop?” It seemed like we rolled 4 or 5 times.   I don’t really know how many, but I know that when we stopped I was upside down.

I mean as soon as I opened my eyes, there was a woman poking her head in the window saying “I’m a nurse, can I take your vitals?” “Is anyone hurt?” Then it hit me that my son was in the van somewhere and I didn’t hear him. So I started screaming his name and his little head popped down from under me, which was now on top of me. I pulled him down and the woman took him out the window and wrapped him in a blanket as she checked him out. 

 I called my mom, I don’t remember why I couldn’t see her because she was next to me, but she didn’t say anything and I started freaking out. To this day I don’t know how I got out of the van, but the next thing I remember is sitting in a man’s car with my son while the fire department used the “Jaws of Life” to cut my mom out of the van.

When the ambulances got on the scene, they put me on a stretcher and put my son and I in one and took us to the hospital. I’d always heard Litchfield referred to and Lynchville, so I wasn’t comfortable at all going to their hospital. I couldn’t have been more wrong.

I was examined, x-rayed, poked and prodded for hours. I didn’t know where my son was and a state trooper was kind enough to come and let me know that my mother had been extracted from the van and also being examined. Then he handed me a can of peaches.  Yes, peaches! He’d found it in the grass near the accident and at that time he told me something I’ll never forget. Be mindful of the things you carry in your car because in an accident, something as innocent as a can of peaches can become a weapon.

I kept telling the people examining me that my vision was blurry in my right eye. They checked it, gave me eye drops and checked again and it still didn’t clear up. They concentrated on picking shards of glass out of my leg. My leg was crossed when I laid back. When they finished, I was asked how I felt. I told them I felt ok, but that my vision was still blurry.

They dilated my right eye and put some special fluorescent drops in my eye and turned out the lights. They shined some special light on it and discovered a shard of glass right in my iris. I don’t remember what happened next, I just know they removed it.

By this time a nurse brought my son in to see me. Lo and behold, in this so-called all white prejudiced town, here comes my son on the hip of a black nurse and bragging about all the jello and green beans he’d eaten.

The nurse assured me that they’d found nothing wrong with him in his exam and that he was entertaining the nurse’s station. (What a surprise.)

About that time my dad and uncle came in to my room and said they’d been to the place where the car was towed and got all the information my mom would need for the insurance. They’d gotten our purses out and took pictures for insurance purposes (my uncle was a former state trooper and knew all these things).

We waited and waited and when it was over and done with, my mom had several stitches, a bunch of cuts and a funky new set of bangs.

Turns out that when I was calling her, she was passed out. When she came to, we were already out of the van. Skeptic about seatbelts? If she hadn’t had her seatbelt on, she’d have likely been under the van because her fingertips were pinned under and so was the front of her hair, hence the new hairstyle.

It also turns out that my son NOT being in a belt is probably what saved him (well I know it was the LORD who saved him) but logistically, he fell under my reclined seat and when we were rolling, he was safely kept between the seat and the floor.

Turns out when we finally stopped, we were upside down on a median just yards away from the northbound traffic.

We were given some real good painkillers and released.

Anyone who’s been in an accident knows that when you wake up the next day, you don’t recognize yourself. You are one big walking bruise. By the way, when you buy a used vehicle, make sure the air bags work. These didn’t, so when we flipped it was the seatbelts that held us in place and every place the belt touched was a bruise. We looked like Big Sal had taken us out back to rough us up. Mom had 2 black eyes, just looked beat down (shaking my head).

All this to say, that even when I wasn’t actively seeking the Lord, He had his angels of mercy all around me.

FYI-angels are NOT the cutesy lil naked babies or beautiful golden hair, white winged beings society says they are. Read any story in the bible about angels speaking or showing themselves to someone, they always say Do Not Fear or Don’t Be Afraid. That’s a whole ‘nother blog though.

Just wanted to share how I’ve been blessed.

 

Wednesday, February 6, 2008

It's a Spike Lee Joint

School Daze is my favorite Spike Lee Joint and I really don't have any one absolute favorite scene.

What are your favorite movies/scenes?

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

I Support Barack--GET OUT AND VOTE!!! I did!

Received this via e-mail from the Obama campaign, though I first saw in on Tw02's page. 

DeAnna --

A friend sent me this video over the weekend.

After nearly a year on the campaign trail, I've seen a lot of things that have touched me deeply, but I had to share this with you:

Video: Yes We Can

http://my.barackobama.com/yeswecan

Sharing this video, which was created by supporters, is one more way to help start a conversation with your friends, family, coworkers, and anyone else who will be voting soon about the issues important to them in this election.

Right now people like you are making phone calls, emailing friends, and doing everything they can to reach voters before the big vote tomorrow.

This is our moment -- please do what you can to help.

Thank you so much,

Michelle

Donate


Monday, February 4, 2008

Black Facts-in honor of Black History Month

Beethoven, the world's 'greatest' musician, was without a doubt a dark 'mulatto.' He was called "The Black Spaniard." His teacher, the immortal Joseph Haydn, who wrote the music for the former Austrian National Anthem, was 'colored,' too.

Friday, February 1, 2008

Black Facts-in honor of Black History Month

BLACKFACT:

The word, "coffee," comes from Caffa, Ethiopia, where it was first used and where it still grows wild.