Liar, Liar ~ commentary related to the repost

First off, Mona has a really identifiable post today about being with someone you know you shouldn’t. Check it out. http://amonamoment.multiply.com/journal/item/105/Sex_Exclusivity_and_I_Saw_the_Signs_?replies_read=12

Now back to lying... Big lies, little lies, white lies, lies of omission and half truths...they’re all the same to me.

I have to be honest, in grade school I lied alot because I wanted to fit in. I pretty much stopped by high school, mostly because there’s nothing worse than getting caught in a lie because, and I quote Mona’s response to the previous post “I have lied before and had to look like a damn fool because of it.

Now I try my damndest not to lie because once you get seen as a liar and ppl note you as they..thats a hard category to come out of....the title of liar will cling to you for a long time”

Now that’s not to say that I only tell the truth now because there are cases when I don’t think someone can handle the truth or I really want to spare their feelings. I still feel bad about it though.

With that said, liars really get under my skin.

Even worse, liars who after they’re caught in the lie, still won’t own up to it. I’ve gotten to the point that when something is awry at home, I don’t even ask about it because if I do, I’ll only get the half of the story that makes the teller favorable or the standard ‘Ida know’.

Then I have one literal mufukka under my roof that realllllly pisses me off. If you don’t ask a question or make a comment EXACTLY how you mean it...for example:

Me: Did you go to bed at 8:30 like I told you to?
Him: Yes
Me: Then why is the tv on at 11:30 and you’re eyes wide open?
Him: You didn’t tell me to go to sleep, you just said go to bed.
Me: *thinking to myself, Lord, PLEASE help me not to knock the flying snot outta this child* CARRY YOUR ASS TO BED AND FALL THE FUCK ASLEEP!!!

Now I get this almost daily on some level and oft it’s ended with someone getting popped in the mouth because I can’t stand a smartass either.

Now the liars who don’t own up to it even though their shit has blown up in their face? I have no tolerance for.

Case in point, my co-worker took it upon herself to tell the rest of our staff and the second floor (another office) that I’m on dialysis. Believe it or not, even though I’ve told all of you, there are many in my day to day life that don’t know, mainly because it’s none of their business.

So when they all started calling me and offering sad sentiments I was like WTF? How do you even know? Three people told me the same thing. E... It took me 4 days to calm down enough to confront her.

She came downstairs to see how I was feeling:

E: Do you feel ok? You should go home.
Me: I feel fine.
E: You’re awfully quiet. You haven’t said much in days.
Me: That’s because I don’t want you telling my business. Why did you tell my business?
E: Huh?
Me: You heard me. Why’d you tell my business to the staff? I told the boss and that’s all I’m obligated to tell.
E: I didn’t say anything to anyone.
Me: Funny, 3 outta 7 people said you did. They all lied?
E: Who said it? Me: It doesn’t matter, keep my shit outta your mouth. It’s my business and I’ll tell who I want.
E: Oh, I think they saw a note on your desk about a doctor’s appointment.
Me: Don’t say shit to me, about me or around me because I know for a fact that that note wasn’t specific and one of those people never even sat here. Now get out.

Bitch STILL hasn’t owned up to it.

What I don’t understand is why a grown ass man or woman feels the need to lie in the first place?  Then try and turn it around like it's on you?  BITCH PLEASE!!

 

 

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