I can't remember who it was and I don't think I'd want to take up all their space anyway ('sides, it's high time I actually wrote another post).
I have deleted probably a dozen folks since I first got on Ply. I have 5 people blocked as we speak.
The number one reason that I'll delete someone is inactivity on their part. I'm not talking about a week or two, I'm talking months. If it's been 2 or more months since you've posted something or logged in, what's the point?
If the stuff you talk about is stupid as hell, you're likely to get deleted.
If you resort to calling people names on my posts, your comment will definitely get deleted and depending on how ignorant things get, you may just get blocked (#1 block).
If you creep me out regularly, you'll likely get deleted.
If I feel that you're connected with me to check up on someone else, you'll get blocked.
If you appear to be a fake page, you'll get blocked.
You don't have to agree with my beliefs, but if you ridicule me because of what I believe in, you can kiss it.
If you ridicule others because they don't believe what you believe, you're useless to me. I try to learn from others, but I don't have to listen to you rant because "folks don't wanna play with the toys" the way you say they should.
If you continuously send out mass pm's and I have to keep hitting the x because I'm not interested, you'll eventually get axed.
If you are negative ALL the damn time and you're robbing me of my positivity each time I visit your spot? See ya!!
It's not complicated. It's mostly common sense. If you were the one who asked the question or if you know who it was, let me know please.
Yep...thats about right.
ReplyDeleteSounds good to me...
ReplyDeleteThis will sho nuff do it for me!
ReplyDeleteWHY DO people do this???? they can post a blog for specific users, which is essentially the same damn thing... I mean if you've got 50 people in a message it's not a message, it's a damn BLOG ENTRY!
ReplyDeletethat chaps my hide to and I wonder the same thing.
ReplyDeletecan we just make this a 'ply proclamation?
ReplyDeleteWell I think you about covered them all.
ReplyDeletedid she say: CHAPS MY HIDE? lol WTH!
ReplyDeleteyesssssss, my hide gets chapped on occasion. lmao
ReplyDeleteYes she did...let us pray.
ReplyDeleteOKAY! Say that girl! lol
ReplyDeleteI too have blocked folks for being rude and such. I also delete folks who are just on my page, never respond back when I write, over do it with the mass e-mails, and a few other reasons that merit me not wanting to be bothered with them. I know that I don't write much anymore, but those who "know" me know that my health isn't what it should be these days... but i do try to say hello, answer comments/emails, and comment on the occasional post. Ya feel me? lol
That's just reality. Some folks are cool, some folks need to go away, for real though! Lmao
Dang..I've committed more than half of these violations and you havent deleted me yet... I must have fallen under the radar....lmaooooooo
ReplyDeleteNothing else to add you said it all. I also get rid of folks of their blogs don't keep me interested. Right now I don't get to go to all my friends pages work is busy, but if I had a PC at home I would go to everyone's page. Well not daily, but I would eventually get to everyone by the end of the week. LOL
ReplyDeletewhy ask why? jeesh....people don't have to send out deletion alerts....lol.
ReplyDeletei can't STAND those PMs. if you not talking JUST to me, don't bother sending that shit. i can't stand it. i deleted someone JUST for doing that plus they never interacted with me and i didn't even know em...
i don't understand people sending those CHAIN e-mails in those PMs....WTF? i mean if it was so meaningful, put it in a blog and let people get around to reading it, otherwise, delete it and stop doing the ridiculous PMs...i don't get that at all.
*nods*
ReplyDeleteYeah, I think some people be posting PMs all willy nilly at times. You might as well post a blog. And I also delete people who I don't associate with. I've only had to block someone once. He was very disrespectful. I don't like when people post mess in my guestbook, especially without my permission. I respect your beliefs. I expect others to do the same.
ReplyDeleteOooooh I forgot that one! Idiot posted a 5-6 paragraph posting. That coming from a friend is one thing, but if I don't know you from Adam? Heck no! And if I delete your post, you bet not come back and post it again!
ReplyDeleteDeletion alerts makes my butt itch! Makes the person out to be an Attention Whore.
ReplyDeleteJust delete me and be done with it.
Mike, I will be deleting you at 1400 hours Pacific Time...
ReplyDeletelol
ReplyDelete*printing out*
ReplyDeleteOh...and I'm only your friend to check up on Red bka Panky and see what Rob is up to.
*pokin' you in your neck*
ReplyDeleteThe Prosecution rests.
ReplyDelete<------------------------------------taking off on my Vespa!
I think the real question is once someone is deleted why do people make a huge deal out of it? Why does it become a federal case? I honestly feel some folks collect friends the way they do comic books. Hell I go on my list and have to figure out who some folks are and why I allowed them on my page to begin with!!! Everyone else? I have so many of you on filters it makes it easy for me to remember.
ReplyDeleteOthers because I've known you since 360 no question why you are on my list!!
I'm sure people removed me from their list and it does not bother me at all.
I can't honestly say this.
ReplyDeleteIf I'm to be deleted, fine. That's your right. However, being deleted because I didn't comment on your blog is total B.S.
TOTALLY the same.. I have to really hunt for it.. to figure out who it is... then I say.. OHHHHHHH.. them... *Pfft* cause it doesn't matter one bit.. The one that tickles me though is the people that delete you and then still come to your page to see what you are talking about..WHY? What you want? Sheesh... Did I become MORE interesting BECAUSE you deleted me.. then you should have just left well enough alone.. Why go around the world to go down the street? People make me tired watching them run in circles...I clare for Gawd they do.. LMAOOO
ReplyDelete2nd that... !!!!!
ReplyDeleteGirl!! You would think folks were getting paid
ReplyDelete...and I second this!!!
ReplyDeleteMike here is why I say it does not bother me. People who truly know me, and we have more than simply a "cybership" of sorts I don't see them deleting me. Now the folks that do? I probably hardly make it on their page so it simply does not matter to me.
ReplyDeleteBut there are folks on here I talk to offline, I've met, we have phone conversations, email each other, text each other. That's what I mean.
Plus the people who delete me for not answering their blogs, when do they come to mine? Man bye!!! LOL
They sure act that way don't they. "OMG I have to meet my quota!!!!"
ReplyDeleteWhat I can't stand is the "I'm leaving" speeches which clearly are designed as an attention ploy for folks to flock you to stay.
ReplyDeleteLook... just leave and get gone. No need for an annoucement. Tell the important folks in a pm or email. The rest of the nobodys will soon figure out you left the network.
Exactly!!! If you leaving be gone!!! Bye, see ya, adios!!! To me it is some ploy because when they announce "I'm leaving" they get the awwwwww don't goooooooooooo!!!
ReplyDeletePffftttt
say that girl! @ncognegra
ReplyDeleteYou hit the nail on the head right there!!!!! That silly practice was abundant during my Yahoo 360 days. It was that reason why I was very leery of reconnecting with those same folks over here on Multiply
ReplyDeleteWe call it E- Suicide... with a touch of HEY POO....
ReplyDeleteThey want someone to pay attention to them and say.. OH PLEASEEE don't go.. we love you... Won't you stay? Our lives are just so empty without you..
**QQ"N*
If you were all that important... We will come looking for YOU..
lmao @ ebonys
ReplyDeleteI mean it's just silly all around.
ReplyDelete* laughing in agreement that is.
ReplyDeleteSAY DAT AGAIN!!!
ReplyDeleteAMEN!!!
ReplyDeleteSAY IT! * pointing my church finga*
ReplyDeleteOUCH!! *QQn for Red* hehehe
ReplyDeletethis is a bunch of grown folks behaving this way that makes it even more pathetic!!
ReplyDeleteLast week sometime, I saw someone on the network (not on my friends list) announce their departure, and not ten seconds had passed for them to say, well, I decided to stay......WTF
ReplyDeleteI'm like what kind of attention ho is this? LOL
Works for me.
ReplyDelete(just so you know though, I have stalker tendencies in the event you try to delete or block me)
This has inspired a clean up....*going to contacts*
ReplyDeleteSee as much as I miss seeing my homie JT on Multiply he did it right. He just bounced!!! No announcement, he just left quietly.
ReplyDeleteBut others announce it to see who will beg them to stay.
I proclaim next time someone says they are leaving don't say NOTHING!!! Just let them go!!! ROFL!! Don't even say Bye, just let them go.
I know kids in daycare that don't have these types of issues.. LMAOOO
ReplyDeleteWhen I "take a break", I just do that...TAKE A BREAK! No fanfare or pomp and circumstances...I just back away from the PC and go on bout my business.
ReplyDeleteNo, the post that got me was the one on the Ply calendar that said on such and such day they were going to start deleting folks. Like there was a ransom involved or something! Pfft!
ReplyDeleteI know!!! LOL
ReplyDeleteExactly!
ReplyDeleteROFL!!!
ReplyDeleteI did LOL!
ReplyDelete(you'd be hard pressed to stalk the stalker lady! I saw you in Vegas! You didn't know that, did you? *insert evil laugh here*)
ReplyDeleteI saw that and that was quite pathetic.
ReplyDeleteI started to say something to that individual, but they probably would have invited me so they can turn around and delete me!
I saw that.. LMAOOOO and then HE ( was yours a HE cause there were 2) sent me a invite..Awwwwww NO Thanks.. My doctor put me on the Lame ass Internet Kids pill .. cause dumb S**T makes me Itch...
ReplyDeleteThat covers it!!!
ReplyDeleteYES!!!!
ReplyDeleteHA!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteSent me one too...I said heyell naw. (that should be an option...accept, decline, heyell naw)
ReplyDeleteSo he can have a DELETE KWEEN KIWI'S ASS day?uh...NO
Lonely Muthafuckas, that's why. The net is their LIFE!!! To tell you the truth, I've gotten deleted so many times that I don't even NOTICE folks delete me until somebody ELSE tells me. Shows how much I pay attention. *Shrugging shoulder*
ReplyDeleteOh, well.
A MESSS! * falling out in the floor Doing the Matrix*
ReplyDelete*doing the leyomi, spinning into the matrix, back up into the twan and flat to the flo*
ReplyDeleteI read this as I was answering the phone and I just had to stop everything so I wouldn't bust out laughing! LOL
ReplyDeleteMike...come be my friend so I can delete you at 1700 hrs...lol j/k
ReplyDeletesowwyyyyyyh
ReplyDeleteCheck your PMs...LOL!
ReplyDeletenow why would someone need to even say anything? LOL
ReplyDeleteLMAOOO
ReplyDeleteThey usually just ask "Why did such-and-such delete you?" and I didn't even know it happened. I didn't know somebody deleted me for a MONTH until somebody told me once. It was like they were never there anyway because I hadn't heard from them since they sent ME an invite.
ReplyDeleteYou know why, Ebby. They wanna know if you got mad and started talking about THEM!!!
ReplyDeleteEven if THEY don't come back, they'll send somebody else...like you dont know what the hells goin' on.
Oh okay.
ReplyDeleteI just want to know why you have to warn someone before deleting him/her? This isn't a job. This isn't a family ex-communication. WTF?
ReplyDeleteI just hate when people block me because they didn't like what I had to say, simply because it was in opposition to their opinion. That's gay.
That's sure what I did when me and Mike got into it! LOL
ReplyDeleteThe opposite happened to me. I deleted someone once and apparently they didn't notice until at least a month later when they asked me why I did so!
ReplyDeleteThat's your answer (hee hee)
Somebody sho coulda picked a better disguise
ReplyDeleteYeah..You just a place holder. What's the point of keeping you?
ReplyDeleteEh shaddyup!
ReplyDeleteI've deleted only one person since I've been on PLY. I have blocked one person cause I seriously can't stand her fake ass and I am not going to fake the funk for no one. And recently I was deleted by someone, for what reason hmm lol I think I got that figured out but hey it's that person's loss. I'm a damn good person and friend. jealousy is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteI post about the things I like or don't like. I have no time to site here and go on anyone's page to check up on anyone else. I don't like DRAMA I swear I am allergic to it literally.
\Lawd I can't stand Mass PM'ers just to say some simple shit. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Definition of PM (Personal Message) A message that is sent to another person that you do not want every one to see. Hence the term Personal Message.
Yet some pseudo-intellectuals in here do this all the time...
ReplyDeletePREACH!
ReplyDeleteI remember that mess. like, um...why are you announcing that shit?? Are you supposed to beg and plead to make sure you're not one of the ones to be axed?
ReplyDelete*still scratchin my head on that one.
My name is Rob and I approve this message.
ReplyDeleteIs THAT what happened to it? *running to Dee's bedroom*
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion people send out mass messages because they know they will be received unlike posts because they get covered up by posts on top of posts and no one will see them at all, but some people run them into the ground and it does get on your nerves...
ReplyDeleteI have deleted people because i never hear from them and I have been deleted for unknown reasons, prolly because i dont i have any good topics but i dont give a shit, this is my story and if someone does not find it interesting they can go away.
Your reasons make sense to me!
ReplyDeleteYou're on shaky ground Mister *shaking my fist @ you*
ReplyDeleteNaw, that's the bed...Oh come on! You KNEW one of us would go there! It was right there!
ReplyDeleteI love my Deedlebug!
ReplyDeleteYou know what? I'm beginning to feel like yall don't love me no mo.
ReplyDeleteOh really? Come here Kiwi. *hug*
ReplyDeleteYall be cracking on me and stuff...treating me like a red-headed step child
ReplyDeleteIt keeps me from lusting after you.
ReplyDeleteLMAOOOOO
ReplyDeleteAWW, so cute! I love my Dee & Rob, too! **hugging you both** *Pinching both of yalls arm meat* LOL
LOL, how'd you find a smiley that makes the exact same face you make?
ReplyDeleteLMAOOOOOOOOOOOO
ReplyDeleteWHATEVER!!! *stomping out*
Ya gotta love the attention ho's
ReplyDeleteWhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat? The Tygar graced me with a comment in 2008!?!?!?!
ReplyDelete